Something to share

Action may not always bring happiness;

but there is no happiness without action.

Busy.. Busy... Busy....

I have not been touching my blog for almost 3 weeks! Can't imaging times flies that fast. I was really busy with my new house. Meeting ID, selecting materials for my cabinets, wall colours, tap, sink.... so many things to decide. Those things can really make me & hubby drop dead. And I thought I am suppose to update my renov blog too. ooopz... The only motivating source is my hubby's support and lovely baby's laughter.

It's only Tuesday!!!!..... 3 more workings days to go....


I think I know why I am crazy for Pooh Bears.....
Does Darren looks like pooh pooh???

Wanted to share a story which I come across. You might have received that but I really like it very much & wanted it to be part my blog. Enjy....

My mom only had one eye. I hated her... she was such an embarrassment... She cooked for students & teachers...to support the family. There was this one day during elementary school and my mom came. I was so embarrassed. How could she do this to me? I threw her a hateful look and ran out.

The next day at school..."Your mom only has one eye?!?!"...eeeee said a friend. I wished my mom would just disappear from this world. So I said to my mom, "Mom... Why don't you have the other eye?! If you're only gonna make me a laughing stock, why don't you just die?!!!" My mom did not respond... I guess I felt a little bad, but at the same time, it felt good to think that I had said what I'd wanted to say all this time... Maybe it was because my mom hadn't punished me,but I didn't think that I had hurt her feelings very badly.

That night...I woke up, and went to the kitchen to get a glass of water. My mom was crying there, so quietly, as if she was afraid that she might wake me. I took a look at her, and then turned away. Because of the thing I had said to her earlier, there was something pinching at me in the corner of my heart. Even so, I hated my mother who was crying out of her one eye. So I told myself that I would grow up and become successful. Then I studied real hard. I left my mother and went to Singapore to study. Then, I got married. I bought a house of my own. Then I had kids, too...Now I'm living happily as a successful man. I like it here because it's a place that doesn't remind me of my mom.

This happiness was getting bigger and bigger, when...What?! Who's this?! It was my mother...Still with her one eye. I felt as if the whole sky was falling apart on me. Even my children ran away, scared of my mom's eye. And I asked her, "Who are you?!" "I don't know you!!!" as if trying to make that real. I screamed at her, "How dare you come to my house and scare my children!" GET OUT OF HERE! NOW!!!" And to this, my mother quietly answered, "Oh, I'm so sorry. I may have gotten the wrong address," and she disappeared out of sight. Thank good ness... She doesn't recognize me. I was quite relieved. I told myself that I wasn't going to care, or think about this for the rest of my life. Then a wave of relief came upon me...

One day, a letter regarding a school reunion came to my house in Singapore. So, lying to my wife that I was going on a business trip, I went. After the reunion, I went down to the old shack, that I used to call a house... Just out of curiosity. There, I found my mother fallen on the cold ground. But I did not shed a single tear. She had a piece of paper in her hand....It was a letter to me.

"My son...I think my life has been long enough now...And... I wont visit Singapore anymore... But would it be too much to ask if I wanted you to come visit me once in a while? I miss you so much.. And I was so glad when I heard you were coming for the reunion. But I decided not to go to the school. For you...And I'm sorry that I only have one eye, and I was an embarrassment for you. You see, when you were very little, you got into an accident, and lost your eye. As a mom, I couldn't stand watching you having to grow up with only one eye... So I gave you mine... I was so proud of my son that was seeing a whole new world for me, in my place, with that eye. I was never upset at you for anything you did.. The couple times that you were angry with me.. I thought to myself, 'It's because he loves me..' My son... Oh, my son... "

This message has a very deep meaning and is passed to remind people of the goodness they have enjoy was because of others directly or indirectly. Pause a moment and consider your life!Be thankful of what you have today compared to many millions who do not live lives as you do!

Oh.... its almost a month that I have not been writing in my own blog. Frens, you must be very disappointing. No worry, hope my little lovely one (Darren) 's pix can entertain you folks abit.

I have been sick for almost a week. Heavy challenging jobs has occupy most of my time. I don't even have much time for a long hour lunch.

Another challenge that I have is, ~being a mom~. Although it is tough but I really like this role, this job. It makes feel me good and make me strong. I have someone depending on me for protection, wanting for my love and care. I also needed to give away alot of attention and energry. I am really drained at the end of the day but I willing to do so, eventhought my reward is just a smile....